>Reflection…Resolution…Peace…Your Journey

>The best way to gauge when you are indeed “over” a relationship is to assess how you “feel” about the person, the relationship, and how it is ending or has ended.

Do you feel anger, bitterness, rage, jealousy, or sarcasm?

Do you feel sad, depressed, regret, or doubt?  

Do you still have the love letters, cards, and notes they gave you when life was all about the two of you? Do you find yourself frequently reading them, reminiscing, looking at your pictures and home movies?

Maybe you simply notice a numbness or indifference to that person, to the relationship…to the love you once shared.

It is also quite possible that you experience a sense of contentment, peace, or satisfaction.

When you get past the emotional roller coaster of anger, tears, sarcasm, and second-guessing yourself…when you get past speaking regularly about the other person, and your days no longer are sprinkled with images of them, sounds of their voice, urges to contact them, or thoughts of wondering what they are doing at that moment and who they are with…you are one step closer to being “over it”.

When a sense of peace blankets you and you see that relationship, that person, as an experience that was necessary to live without regret, but also without a desire to return… you have evolved beyond that level of experience…you are “over it” and “over” them.

Congratulations and peace be with you on your next journey of love!
Copyright © 2010 by Natasha L. Foreman. All rights reserved; excluding displayed images.

Angry Woman Image Source: http://www.inspiration-for-singles.com/images/controlling-anger.jpg

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Love Letters Image Source: http://www.research.olemiss.edu/UMQuest/2006/Winter/images/LoveLetters.jpg


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2 thoughts on “>Reflection…Resolution…Peace…Your Journey

  1. >When I had been unable to get past a failed relationship I admit this to be the greatest feeling of them all @ you have evolved beyond that level of experience…you are "over it" and "over" them.

  2. >Getting over the relationship and over our attachment to an individual is a difficult hurdle, but once it is done and you know you have cleared it unscathed it feels good…you then know there is something and someone else out there meant to be with and share their life with you. Thanks for sharing Don!

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